Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts

Sunday, April 29, 2012

21, 22, 23 and....24 months old!

I can no longer claim to keep up my once, very regular blogger status, if I can't even blog about my youngest son's accomplishments each month. What a pathetic and weak turnout I've had for poor Callum this last year. :(

I had every intent to keep on with months 21 and 22, but by the time I was so behind that I was looking at month 23, I then actually made a conscious effort to not post. Because, then what the heck would I say for the big 2.0 the following month? ;-)




I can't possibly pretend to remember all the various milestones Callum surpassed over the past four months but I do remember a few of the most important.


His language skills have really picked up - and his fun attitude really shines through at the same time. Callum has started to carry on more regular conversations with short complete sentences (some words are clear as day while others Jon and I still have to listen to very closely). He's certainly learned the meaning of "no" and "stop", which are sometimes cute and sometimes annoying. ;-) He's also prone to put his finger to his lips and say "shhhh" from time to time, which I can only imagine he gets from the teachers at school (since I usually bark at my kids "HUSH!" when I need them to pipe it down). He also LOVES to say "my turn", which I remember Logan doing at about the same age, but interestingly, Callum has to say it in a threatening gruff (but silly) voice, rather than a sweet inquiring voice. QUITE THE DIFFERENCE!



Callum has also really honed his physical skills too - he's quick to push (say, his older brother), if he doesn't get what he wants or something is in his way. He loves to jump - EVERYWHERE (to the point that I've been looking at various trampolines to set up in the house!). He's great at climbing up and down stairs no problem and is getting better with ladders, but still needs help (which can be tricky since his big brother sometimes sleeps on the top bunk, and we forget that the ladder is still out!) He's a super fast runner and climbs up and down furniture, couches, coffee tables (or dining tables - ack!), chairs, etc. with ease. All of this is great because it definitely shows how comfortable he's becoming in his own skin but what I enjoy the most, is how much he LOVES to tackle and rough house with his brother. Logan is in heaven that he can play more and more with Callum too. It's so fun to see.  :)


A couple other blog-worthy milestones that Callum has just started hitting are learning to use regular cups instead of sippy cups. We've been phasing the sippy cup out at the table during meals. It's definitely a tough process, since it means I need to keep an extra close eye on him and sit next to him rather than balance a few other chores while he eats, etc. but it's all worth it of course.


And finally, potty training! We are in the VERY FIRST stages, but it's exciting to start. A few months ago, Callum just barely started talking about "poo-poo" but not really doing much about it (and generally would let us know AFTER he went). Now he lets us know BEFORE (how much notice he gives us changes each day) when he has to go. For awhile, Jon and I thought he may just be saying it anytime he wanted to get picked up or wanted attention ;-) but now we can see he really means it and is letting us know.


And, just within this last month, he has also started saying "potty" (interestingly, he'll also often say "my turn, potty" after Logan has sat on the potty). We've started responding to "potty", by asking him if he wants to sit on the potty - it's 50/50 on whether he'll answer yes or no. And, save for two miraculous events which were pure accident I'm sure, he doesn't actually do anything when he is on the potty but smile, laugh, swing his legs, repeat peepee and poopoo, then stand up telling us he's "all done" and "bye bye poopoo" (when there's nothing actually in there).

But hey! It's a start! And we'll take it. :)


Finally, I'll throw in one last note that while most of the time Callum is super smiley and happy as can be, that happiness flips on a quick kill switch, where we often find him throwing mini-tantrums whenever he doesn't get his way or is overly tired or just doesn't like the way something is going.


And if he really wants to be dramatic about it, he'll fling his body on the floor, face down, sobbing uncontrollably. When this happens, I generally just step right over him and keep walking down the hall to my room, or wherever it is I'm going (which is harder to do when I want to leave the school to go home, but can't very well just leave my kid on the floor crying, can I?) I just laugh and shake my head - because if it weren't clear already, that type of behavior certainly solidifies it - we have a 2 year old running around our house.


We love you dearly Mr. Callum. Your devious and mischievous smiles, all of your impatience, and the constant twinkle in your eye. We love it all.

Happy (belated) second birthday!

Saturday, April 7, 2012

School Pics

It's that time of year again!  I crack up every time I look at these pics, my boys are so full of character, even posed like this (or maybe it's the poses that bring out their character?).  This year, I had one done with the two of them together too.  I love how they all turned out.  Hope you do too!

Logan's Class

Callum's Class

Logan: 4 yrs, 4 months old

Callum: 2 yrs old

Hilarious! :)

Friday, March 23, 2012

Brothers

Today was picture day at school so the boys were dressed a little nicer than usual. (Which is becoming a bigger fight as they get older!)

Callum's teacher texted me this pic today of three sets of brothers since the younger ones are all in the same class and the older ones are all in the same class. And, they are all good pals. :)

Sunday, March 18, 2012

My boys

The boys have been staying with my parents this weekend and my parents have been awesome about sending a few pics of the boys to us while we're away. This is the second weekend away from them (the last one was for my birthday last year!) and it's still really hard for me (especially) to be away from them for so long.

Anyway, I love that they send these pics. This was one of my favorite because they are looking so happy and content.  :)

Monday, March 12, 2012

Pucker up!

Today, as we were leaving school, Logan said goodbye to his sweetheart and best pal, Stephanie, giving her a big hug.

He then leaned in real close. Do you want a kiss too?

She leaned away.  No kissing!

Why?  (I was curious too)

My Daddy said no more kissing.

Logan tried chasing her around the grass to get his kiss in, until I made him stop (if she says no, then that means no!).  ;-)

As we're piling into our respective cars, a few minutes later, the two are literally YELLING at each other across the street, continuing their conversation.

But I still love you Logan!

I love you too!  See you tomorrow!

Sunday, February 5, 2012

On Marriage

A classic conversation between Jon and I last weekend:

Me: Hey babe, do your pants need to be washed?

Jon: Sure.

Me: Ok, can you go grab them for me?

Jon: Nah, they're good.

....

And yet, I still love being married to the (lazy) guy!  ;-)

Jon left bright and early this morning for a "work" conference this week.  Work being in quotes because, while he will do plenty of work and networking while he's there, he will also have more than his fair share of fun and drinking sprinkled in wherever and whenever he can.

I know, I know, I sound bitter.  I'm not particularly crazy about the timing of the trip, since I've been Solo-Mom for the last two weeks while he heals from surgery, and am pretty worn out.  But what can you do.  Hopefully the time will fly by!  Wish me luck.  :)

Friday, January 27, 2012

On Parenthood

I love this graph.  The post that accompanies it (on the topic of parenthood) is pretty damn good too.


Jon's been doing really well - recovering a little bit more every day.  He's still hobbling around like an old man, and groans whenever he coughs or laughs, but he's definitely on the mend.

I, on the other hand, have barely been hanging on.  I've been in "survival mode" as my PT puts it, this past week.  Work is extremely busy, and waiting on my husband has been a tiny bit draining.  But, the worst of it all was Callum decided to start teething.  Literally, TO. THE. DAY. that Jon was cut open (and lo and behold couldn't pick up the kids anymore).

Callum has had his last four teeth (the canines) missing for a very long time - I don't remember how long but it's probably been at least 6 months, if not longer.  So late last week, those remaining four teeth decided to come in.  All at once.  Poor guy is in uncomfortable pain, crying out without any warning at all, wanting to be held at all hours of the day and night.  And, I've got no one to help me juggle it all.

So yeah, love these little boogers to the point that I wouldn't hesitate to throw myself or Jon under a bus to save one of them, but I'd say this last week has definitely been one of the bigger pains in my asses.  :)

Thursday, December 29, 2011

4 years old

The weekend before Logan's 4th birthday, Jon and I were driving up to the city to attend my company's holiday party and he asks me, so what are we doing for Logan's birthday?


It's a question I get every year and, every year, I have the same answer.

Not much - maybe a cake after dinner and a few presents with the immediate family.  That's the type of birthdays I grew up with, and that's the type of birthdays I'm fine with my boys having.  And frankly, I really don't have the time nor energy to plan out a big event!  :)

Mommm!

However, Jon really wanted to do something different for Logan this year, and Logan is finally at that age where he sees and remembers the birthday parties of his friends and wants to do something himself.

So, a week before his birthday, as we were driving up to the city, I sent a quick email out to a few of our closest friends and nearby family, inviting them to our house for Logan's birthday.  That next week (while I was laid out on ice post-epidurals, working from my couch!), I planned out his party.

We didn't do much, but enough to make our son happy.  We had friends over to play....





We ate pizza and cake....





And opened presents...





Lots of presents!






 And smacked a (dragon) piñata!








It was only fitting that Logan made the final hit! :)

And once everyone had gone home for the day, Uncle Zane and Aunt Norma paid a visit with a few more presents!



Reading the assembly instructions :)


I'm happy to report, Logan absolutely loved the entire day!  :)

As for Logan, he is extremely proud of the fact that he is now FOUR.  Interestingly, he'll also try to pull a fast one on you and claim he's 5 (oh, to hell with 4, I'm now 5!)  ;-)  But seriously, our biggest "issue" with Logan these days is getting him to understand and follow rules, as he often misbehaves or doesn't listen.  However, as much as he doesn't SEEM to be paying attention, I know our lessons are hitting home, as he often reminds me that I'll get a red mark - which is a "bad" mark for him at school - if I don't do XYZ (usually something he wants me to do like pour him a cup of juice).  :)


However, in the grand scheme of things, he's a great, well adjusted kid - and our days are much calmer when we are with him, as he has grown into his big four year old status quite well (which, you can imagine, is a huge blessing, since it generally takes both Jon and I together, to tackle and keep track of crazy Callum).